A Month-by-Month Guide to Your Pregnant Body

Your First Month of Pregnancy

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You've barely missed your period, if at all yet. Most of what happens this month is thought about in hindsight. This is why it's important to act pregnant before you actually conceive.

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • As your last period starts, you are not pregnant.
  • After ovulation, the egg and sperm join and begin the journey to the uterus.
  • As you miss your first period, or even a few days before, you may begin to suspect you are pregnant.
  • Take a pregnancy test.

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  • The two week wait from ovulation until you can take a pregnancy test may be emotionally draining.
  • If you have been planning a pregnancy, you may feel slightly bewildered that your emotions fluctuate between joy and fear over the upcoming pregnancy.

Pregnancy Month One

Your Second Month of Pregnancy

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If you just found out you're pregnant, congratulations. Otherwise, you may be settling into the thought of expecting a baby. This month tends to be a month when you start to see symptoms of pregnancy. Though morning sickness may be the one most people talk about, is by no means the only symptom of pregnancy for most women. Many women also experience symptoms such as fatigue, frequent urination, and even insomnia.

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • A positive pregnancy test by blood or urine is possible as soon as you miss your period.
  • In the beginning, many women experience nausea and vomiting.
  • You may feel really, incredibly tired.
  • You may feel like you're about to start your period, even down to the mild cramping.

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  • You can't really believe you are pregnant - this is normal.
  • You might feel guilty because there are times where you forget you are pregnant.

Pregnancy Month Two

Your Third Month of Pregnancy

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The third month of pregnancy is typically one of the hardest, usually because you feel so rotten and yet don't feel pregnant. This can be exacerbated by the fact you have yet to share your good news. If you're waiting until the end of the first trimester to tell your friends and family about the baby, you may feel that you have to hide some of the feelings that you're experiencing physically. This can complicate matters. One mom described it is making her feel incredibly grumpy.

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • Your pregnancy will continue to have symptoms like morning sickness, fatigue, and a decrease in your desire for sex.
  • Your belly doesn't really show right now, but as you reach the end of this month your uterus will be slightly above your pelvis.
  • Your breasts may increase in size, they may also feel fuller and be more tender. You may notice that the areola gets darker during this month.
  • Some symptoms of the first trimester leave you as you head towards the second trimester, like the fatigue and morning sickness.

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  • Feeling anxious about the health of the baby is a common feeling at this point in pregnancy
  • Your partner may or may not also share concerns about the pregnancy.

Pregnancy Month Three

Your Fourth Month of Pregnancy

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Welcome to the second trimester. Now that the risk of miscarriage has dropped significantly, most moms begin to enjoy their pregnancy a little bit more. Now is also the time you may feel more free to talk about your pregnancy to your friends. Consider how you will share the good news with those you love. What you plan an elaborate surprise or simply break the good news over dinner?

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • You are enjoying feeling better than you did last month.
  • Because your placenta has taken over the production of the pregnancy hormones, you may feel a bit better in the second trimester.
  • Some women will begin to have their bellies show at this point, though most women do not yet need maternity clothes.
  • Because of the extra blood volume your body needs during pregnancy, your heart will be beating more rapidly.

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  • You may be frustrated that you don't outwardly look pregnant to strangers on the street.
  • The acceptance of the pregnancy is easier for you at this point.

Pregnancy Month Four

Your Fifth Month of Pregnancy

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This month you may notice that your belly begins to show. This is more than just when you're getting out of the shower, even strangers may begin to notice that you look a little more rounded. If you were going to maternity clothes, don't go wild just yet. Give it a little bit more time. While shopping for your pregnancy may be fun, there are other ways to expand your wardrobe including borrowing from friends, shopping through used clothing, and even stealing from your partner's closet.

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • You may begin to feel your baby move, this is called quickening.
  • As your uterus reaches your navel or belly button, you will begin to show more.
  • You are going to the bathroom more often because your kidneys work harder in pregnancy.
  • You are still enjoying your pregnancy at this point with few symptoms that plague you.

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  • You are anxious to learn about babies and birth.
  • As your partner begins to feel the baby move, it brings a whole new dimension to how he sees the pregnancy.

Pregnancy Month Five

Your Sixth Month of Pregnancy

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Many moms feel a sense of sensuality and sexuality increasing this month. This can be a great time to reconnect with your partner. If you're having issues with sex, talk to your practitioner. The vast majority of women have no restrictions in the bedroom.

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • Your baby's movements become easier for you to feel. You may feel your baby move more frequently or with more regularity.
  • If heartburn plagues you, try smaller, more frequent meals and avoid offending foods.
  • Are you having practice contractions, known as Braxton Hicks contractions?
  • Many women tell you to really enjoy this month before the fatigue and symptoms of the third-trimester slip in.
  • Do you know the symptoms of premature labor?

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  • You are probably thoroughly enjoying your pregnancy at this point.
  • Dreaming strange dreams is fairly common in pregnancy. Don't put too much stock in these night time images.

Pregnancy Month Six

Your Seventh Month of Pregnancy

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Welcome to the third trimester. This month begins the end of your pregnancy. These last few months of pregnancy can seem like a whirlwind. Where everything seemed new and fresh in the first trimester, now you may feel the rush of the end of pregnancy hurtling towards you.

Most moms still feel great this month. Use this to your advantage and continue to exercise to increase your sense of well-being, decrease aches and pains, and even help you sleep better at night. The even better news is that your partner can often feel the baby move externally by this point. This provides a new game to play in the evenings as you sit around and dream about what life will be like with a new baby.

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • The symptoms of the last trimester may begin to set in. This includes backache, inability to sleep and other not so fun symptoms of late pregnancy.
  • Your belly is growing rapidly! It changes shape and you may even see your baby kick through your abdomen.
  • As your body prepares for the birth you will notice that your joints feel looser, this is from the release of relaxin. It makes you waddle.

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  • Continue learning all you can - take a breastfeeding class, a childbirth class, and learn about baby care.
  • You may start to wonder about the birth process - talk to mothers who have had positive birth experiences to hear their thoughts on having a positive birth.

Pregnancy Month Seven

Your Eigth Month of Pregnancy

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Physical challenges may begin in this month. Exercise, particularly in a swimming pool, can help alleviate some of the stress. You may also notice the return to some of the earlier pregnancy symptoms like fatigue, frequent urination, and insomnia.

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • You may tire easily as you come down this final stretch. Some women report that they could sleep all day but have trouble sleeping at night. Some say that this is to help prepare you for the sleepless nights ahead. Nap whenever you can.
  • You may find that you are simply uncomfortable. Try yoga, swimming and light exercise to help relieve some of the pain you experience.
  • As your baby drops further into your pelvis, you may need to urinate more often.

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  • As the birth draws closer, you may worry about your ability to parent.
  • Talk to your partner about ways to handle the upcoming birth emotionally and physically. Ask your childbirth educator or doulas for advice.

Pregnancy Month Eight

Your Ninth Month of Pregnancy

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Eight long months ago you started this journey. Now you were at nearly the end. You may feel rushed, you may feel serene, there really is not one right way to feel. Some moms feel a combination of all of these.

Congratulations on making it to the last month of your pregnancy. While your baby cannot read a calendar, you can. There is something to celebrate about reaching this milestone. Plan ahead for something special on your due date. Some ideas include a pedicure, a massage, or even a big date night out.

Physical Changes in Pregnancy

  • Can you believe how big your belly has gotten? Typically your uterus will measure about 40 centimeters from your pubic bone.
  • You may notice many contractions as you prepare for labor.
  • Your breasts make their final preparations for breastfeeding, this may include leaking.
  • Do you often wonder if you are in labor?

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  • Build your confidence in breastfeeding.
  • Remember that parenting is one day at a time. Enjoy your baby each day and go slowly.

Pregnancy Month Nine

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