Child Development Milestones of Your 9-Year-Old

At age 9, girls and boys are at a major development transition as they stand on the cusp of adolescence. In many ways, 9-year-olds are still young children, but they are becoming much more independent, and are developmentally mature enough to handle many responsibilities and situations with minimal adult intervention.

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Behavior and Daily Routines of the 9-Year-Old

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Many 9-year-old children are becoming more interested in helping make major decisions that affect the family and are capable of taking on more chores and responsibilities around the house. Children this age also tend to want a certain amount of organization and may want to keep track of their activities and schedules.

They continue to need a good example of exercise, nutrition, and eating habits. They still need 10 to 11 hours of sleep but it may be more difficult to enforce an earlier bedtime.

At nine, many children are increasingly expanding their social circles to include more people outside of mom and dad. At the same time, 9-year-old children still need and want a secure relationship with their parents, and are greatly influenced by their parents' example. Read in-depth about 9-year-old child behavior and daily routines.

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Physical Development of the 9-Year-Old

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Nine-year-old children are on the cusp of adolescence—a major phase of child development in which they can expect many physical, emotional, and other changes. They are likely to see a wide variety of changes in their classmates as children grow at different rates during this volatile time.

Puberty starts sometime between 8 and 12 for girls and 9 and 14 for boys and you can expect to need to discuss with your child what is happening to their body and to their friends.

Many 9-year-old children will have stronger and smoother muscle control, giving them more capabilities in physical activities. They are able to handle much of their hygiene and personal care by themselves 

Children this age may also be more susceptible to body image issues. Read in-depth about 9-year-old child physical development.

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Emotional Development of the 9-Year-Old

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At age 9, many children are more emotionally mature and are better able to handle conflicts and frustrations. Nine-year-old children will be more independent and will be emotionally more ready to socialize without their parents (such as at sleepovers at friends' houses).

They have a strong desire to belong to a group and to fit in and may be more susceptible to peer influence and peer pressure. They may be moodier, feel more stress and pressure, and will rely on the support and love provided by parents. Read in-depth about 9-year-old child emotional development.

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Cognitive Development of the 9-Year-Old

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Nine-year-old children are incredibly curious about the world around them and may want to research topics that interest them. They have longer attention spans and will tend to spend lots of time on activities and subjects that they are excited about.

They will be able to think critically and may want to share their opinions about things. They will read and write increasingly more complicated texts and will learn how to work with multiple digits, geometry, and data organization in math. Read in-depth about 9-year-old child cognitive development.

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Social Development of the 9-Year-Old

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The social world of the 9-year-old child is opening up more than ever before. At 9, many children consider friendships to be very important, and they may even have adult role models who are not mom and dad, such as a coach or a teacher.

Peer pressure may become an issue at this age, and many children will have a strong sense of fairness and right and wrong. Children may also become more socially conscious and become interested in bettering the world and helping others. Read in-depth about 9-year-old child social development.

A Word From Verywell

Your girl or boy at age 9 has many increased capabilities, as well as new challenges. Enjoy this period of childhood and give your child the attention and support needed to realize his or her full potential.

Source:

Middle Childhood. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/childdevelopment/positiveparenting/middle.html.

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