Tips to Identify Common End of Life Signs

Pain and Decreased Appetite Make This List

Ideally, an individual at the end of life should be comfortable and free of any distressing symptoms and signs. But the transition to death, just like life's start, is hard work. 

Just as a woman's body knows how to give birth, the human body knows instinctively how to die, but it doesn't always do so without pain or discomfort.  

There are common signs that often occur at the end of life, and if they are recognized and managed early on, the individual will be better able to do the important work of dying.

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Pain is probably the most feared symptom at the end of life. Not every illness that leads to death causes pain, but other underlying conditions may still exist. An example is an individual dying of heart failure who also has arthritis. Other diseases, like cancer, usually do cause pain. Whatever the illness is, the ability to recognize and help manage pain is essential.


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Shortness of breath occurs more frequently than pain at the end of life and can be even more troubling. Some degree of breathlessness is common in most individuals as they near death. Luckily, there are a few really simple and effective treatments that can bring quick relief.


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Anxiety is perfectly normal and quite common at the end of life. We would expect an individual to feel some level of anxiety while experiencing pain or shortness of breath, but anxiety can occur ​at any time, even without another distressing symptom.


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Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do about a decreased appetite at the end of life. As the body naturally shuts down and prepares for death, it no longer needs the calories and nutrition that food provides.  If you are concerned about hunger or thirst, you can read more about decreased appetite, increasing food intake and artificial feedings.


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Illnesses, medications and other treatments can often lead to nausea with or without vomiting. This can be a really troubling symptom for the individual experiencing it and for caregivers who may have to clean it up.


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If you've ever been constipated, you know how horribly uncomfortable it can be. It's definitely not something anyone wants to experience in their final weeks or days. Medications used to treat pain and shortness of breath can cause constipation, as can lack of activity, decreased fiber and fluid intake, and disease processes. Constipation is a symptom you have to stay on top of to prevent it from becoming severe.


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Confusion, agitation, and sleeplessness can occur in some individuals at the end of life. Delirium can be caused by disease ​processes, medications or a number of other things. 


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As detestable as it is to call this symptom the "death rattle," it does create a pretty accurate visual of the symptom. End-stage wet respirations is the medical term for secretions that build up in the airway when an individual becomes too weak to clear those secretions out. The accumulation of mucous and fluids causes a rattling sound with breathing and is can be distressing for the individual's loved ones. 


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Intimacy is deeply important to many individuals at the end of life. The need to feel close to the one you love doesn't vanish just because death is near. However, it isn't uncommon for the dying patient to become increasingly focused inward rather that socializing with others.


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