Before You Hire A Babysitter: What You Should Know

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Securing a trustworthy and reliable babysitter is not a simple task. Here are some tips to aid in the process of finding sitters to interview, questions to ask during the interview, calling references and hiring a babysitter.

Where To Look and What To Ask to Find a Babysitter

The best place to start looking is within the community you know: your church, local schools, your workplace. Once you have some names, it's important to check references.

These may come from teachers, youth group leaders or from other families who have used the sitter. When you contact families the sitter has worked for, ask how many kids they have. Also, find out if they ever had any problems with the way the sitter interacted with their kids.

Observe Babysitter Interaction With Your Kids

The next step is to invite the sitter over to ask questions and see how he or she interacts with your children. This type of interaction shows the level of comfort your prospective sitter has with children. It is important to choose a babysitter that aligns with your method of parenting. Be sure to ask about the sitter's training in first aid or CPR. Discuss what he or she may do in certain emergency situations. A competent sitter will be able to answer these questions and prove he or she can handle the job.

Is He or She Qualified to Be a Babysitter?

Check your sitter's qualifications against these characteristics recommended by the American Red Cross Babysitter's Training Program: First aid/CPR training; Maturity; Good judgment; Common sense; Friendly personality; Responsible; Nonsmoker; Healthy; Neat; and Organized.

But, beyond any qualifications, go with your heart. Do you trust this person with your child?

Plan Early Arrival for Babysitter

After you hire a sitter, have him or her come to your house a half-hour before you leave to go over all emergency issues. "More than half the parents who leave their children with baby sitters under 16 don't leave emergency telephone numbers," says Dr. Keener.

Discuss House Rules and Leave Contact Information

Make sure you discuss your rules with the sitter and always leave a number where you can be reached at all times. In the event of a life-threatening emergency, a medical professional is permitted to treat your child, experts say. But if it is a non-life-threatening injury, they will need parental consent to treat.

Call Home To Check on Kids and Babysitter (At Least First Time)

During the evening, be sure to call home, especially if you are not easily accessible. Call home at a time when you may be able to head off a potential problem, such as a half-hour after bedtime when the kids may be refusing to go to sleep. You could suggest some ways for the sitter to convince them to go to bed. Consistency between caregivers is very important when it comes to sleeping, eating and discipline.

Get A Debriefing After You Return Home

Consider debriefing the sitter when you get home. Ask specifically about areas where you think the sitter may have had trouble.

Often sitters think your child's behavior is a reflection on them and may be reluctant to admit any behavioral problems unless asked. Choosing a sitter with training in handling emergencies and checking the sitter's references will make you more comfortable and your children safer.

Updated by Jill Ceder

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