Free and Low Cost Reward Ideas for Kids

Motivate Kids to Manage Their Behaviors with Rewards that Don't Cost Anything

Reward systems motivate kids to do chores.
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Reward systems can be one of the best ways to improve your child's behavior. And the best news is, a well-designed reward system will work fast.

Many parents assume rewards need to be big ticket items. And some of them worry they'll be spoiling their kids if they hand out rewards.

But rewards don't have to cost in any money. There are many free and low cost ways to reward kids. In fact, you can use many of the privileges your child likely enjoys already.

 

Just make sure your child is invested in earning the incentive. While one child may be motivated by extra TV time, another child may be motivated by a trip to the park. So offer rewards that are specific to your child's interests and needs. 

Whether you want to motivate your child to get her chores done, or you want to teach your child to stop hitting, here are some free and low cost reward ideas:

Praise

While you shouldn't reserve praise for giant achievements, you can definitely use words of encouragement as an incentive. When your child knows you're paying attention to his effort, he'll be motivated to keep up the good work. So catch your child being good and praise her efforts often.

Tangible Rewards

There are times when praise isn’t enough and kids need a little extra incentive. A treasure box filled with items from the dollar store can go a long way toward keeping kids on track. Let your child choose a reward at the end of the day if he's met his goals.

 

Or, consider loaning something to your child. If he loves borrowing your hat or he likes using your office chair, let him use it if he's earned it. 

Later bedtime

Although some parents are hesitant to allow kids to stay up later, allowing your child to stay up an extra 15 minutes isn't likely to make him sleep deprived.

And a later bedtime can be a big motivator for kids.

Younger kids will often feel like a “big kid” and it can be a great incentive if they are able to stay up later than their siblings. If you have a child who has difficulty sleeping though, choose a different incentive or only offer it on nights when she can sleep in a little longer the next day.

Special Activities

Choose a special activity that your child will enjoy and use it as a reward. Playing a board game together, going to the park, or an extra bedtime story are just a few special activities that your child might want to earn. Look for free community events and utilize resources like your local library which often have special events.

Extra Electronics Time

Although it's important to ensure your child's electronics use is limited, you can make time on digital devices a reward. Allow up to two hours of screen time per night. But make sure your child earns every minute of it.

You can offer screen time rewards in 15 minute chunks. So if your child follows the rules before school, he might earn 15 minutes of screen time. If he has a good day at school, he might earn 15 more minutes. 

You may want to pick a specific behavior to address, like respectful words or gentle touches.

If your child exhibits those behaviors during the specified times, he could earn screen time. 

Make a Craft Together

Most kids love to get creative and messy. And often, you can create things with regular household items.

Paper bags make great puppets. Cotton balls and glue can lead to endless creations. Build a model, make some jewelry, or get out the finger paint as a reward for good behavior.

Coupons

Coupons can be a great way to reward kids. For example, kids love to earn coupons that say things such as “get out of having to do one chore” or “get to stay up 15 minutes later. Allow your child to spend his coupons whenever he wants.

Social activities

Allow kids to earn extra social opportunities such as inviting a friend over or having a sleep over. Other free rewards can include inviting a friend to the park or going to a community activity.

Food Rewards

Although it’s not a good idea to offer junk food as an incentive, there are some ways to incorporate food into a reward system. For example, allow your child to choose what’s for dinner if or let her earn an indoor picnic.

Get creative and build a fort out of blankets and eat under the glow of a flashlight, if that would motivate your child to follow the rules. Baking a special treat together may also be a great motivator.

Token Economy System

Token economy systems provide kids with chips or tokens on a daily basis that can later be exchanged for rewards. Provide your child with a varied reward menu that allows her  to earn bigger rewards.

You can offer free rewards such as “a trip to the park” in exchange for 10 tokens. Sticker charts can be very rewarding for younger children as well.

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