Can I Get an STD From Having Sex With a Virgin?

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Question: Can I get an STD from having sex with a virgin?

Answer: Yes, you can get an STD from having sex with a virgin.

Even if it is a virgin's first time having vaginal intercourse, it doesn't mean that they have never been exposed to an STD. Many individuals consider themselves to be virgins even if they've had oral sex and anal sex. Both of those types of sex are risk factors for acquiring an STD.

That is, in fact, one of the main problems with virginity pledges. They focus on vaginal intercourse, without talking about other types of risk.  It's why they are not a particularly useful tool in a sex educator's arsenal.

Even if a person has never had any sexual contact, it is possible that they may have been exposed to an STD. Many individuals acquire oral herpes through casual affection with their family members. Other people are exposed to their mother's STDs during pregnancy or birth. It is also possible to become infected with diseases, such as HIV, through nonsexual risk behaviors. For example, injection drug use is a risk factor for most blood-borne diseases.

Relative sexual inexperience does make it less likely that a person will have an STD. Just don't assume that just because someone says they're a virgin that you are not taking a risk. It's still important to practice safe sex, if for no other reason than it's a good life-saving habit.

Furthermore, what about putting your partner at risk? Contrary to some popular myths, people can get pregnant the first time they have sex. In addition, sleeping with a virgin won't cure your HIV or other STDs.

When it comes to sex, it's better to be safe than sorry. Assuming you're at risk of STDs or pregnancy is safer than not taking those risks into account.


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