Managing Impulsive Behaviors

Impulsive Behaviors Can Be Associated with PTSD

People with PTSD may be at greater risk to engage in a number of impulsive behaviors, such as deliberate self-harm. Therefore, it can be important to learn healthy ways of managing urges to engage in these behaviors.

What Are Impulsive Behaviors?

Impulsive behaviors are those that occur quickly without control, planning, or consideration of the consequences of that behavior. Impulsive behaviors tend to be connected with immediate positive consequences (for example, relief from emotional pain).

However, in the long-term, there may be a number of negative consequences, such as greater emotional distress or regret.

Managing Impulsive Behaviors

There are a number of coping strategies available for preventing impulsive behaviors. If you struggle with impulsive behaviors, try one (or all) of the coping strategies below to see if you can get a better handle on problematic behaviors.

Distract Yourself
Urges to engage in impulsive behaviors may be very strong and hard to cope with. However, these urges generally pass fairly quickly. Therefore, if you can distract yourself when experiencing an urge, you may be able to sit with an urge until it passes. Fortunately, there are a number of healthy distraction strategies that may be helpful in riding out a strong urge or emotional experience.

Replace Your Impulsive Behavior with a Healthy Behavior
Even though impulsive behaviors may lead to long-term problems, in the moment, they are serving a purpose.

For example, they may help you cope with emotional pain. Therefore, one way of preventing impulsive behaviors is finding another, healthier behavior that may serve that same purpose. For example, you may seek out a friend or write about your emotions. Try to find a healthy way of relieving emotional pain that will not have long-term negative consequences for you.

Identify the Long-Term Negative Consequences of an Impulsive Behavior
We tend to be driven by the short-term consequences of a behavior. That is, we usually repeat behaviors that work well for us in the moment, regardless of what their long-term negative consequences are. Therefore, it can be useful to increase your awareness of the long-term negative consequences of a behavior. One way to do this is by identifying the short- and long-term pros and cons of a behavior.

Change the Consequences of a Behavior
People continue to engage in impulsive behaviors because they do something positive in the moment (for example, taking away anxiety or fear). One way to reduce the likelihood of an impulsive behavior is to take away its short-term positive effect. As soon as you engage in an impulsive behavior, immediately conduct a chain analysis to connect with why you engaged in that behavior in the first place. This will put you back in touch with all those emotions that you were trying to get away from in the first place and force you to face and cope with them in another, healthy way.

It can also be very helpful to reward yourself when you don't engage in an impulsive behavior.

Impulsive behaviors can be very difficult to cope with; however, it is possible. Identify some impulsive behaviors that you would like to change, and next time you notice an urge to engage in those behaviors coming on, try one of the coping strategies above. It may be difficult at first; however, with every success, it will become easier and easier.


Gratz, K.L. (2009). An Acceptance-Based Emotion Regulation Group Therapy for Deliberate Self-Harm.

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