7 Things To Tell Your Pediatrician at a Well Visit

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A well visit to your pediatrician is important for your child's health at any age. Learn to make the most of the visits! Since a lot goes on during the visit, especially for new parents, we're covering the topics you should talk about so that you don't forget about them.

When to Schedule a Visit

In addition to what some consider optional well visit appointments at one month and 30 months, you should see your pediatrician on the following schedule:

  • Newborns and Infants: after the first visit to their pediatrician by 3-5 days after they are born, visits to the pediatrician continue at 2 weeks and then 2, 4, 6, and 9 months
  • Toddlers: visits to the pediatrician begin to space out a bit at this time, with well appointments at 12, 15, 18, and 24 months
  • Preschoolers: before kindergarten, there are visits at 3 and 4 years
  • Middle Childhood: by age 5 years, well child visits move to a yearly schedule
  • Tweens and Teens: older kids can continue going to their pediatrician each year until age 21 years

These are the standard preventative care visits at which kids are measured, have a developmental assessment, physical exam, get vaccines, and are given anticipatory guidance about safety, nutrition, sleep, and behavioral issues, etc.

Be sure to address these 7 important issues.

1) Results of Screening Quizzes

It is recommended that kids routinely be screened for:

Instead of being surprised with a screening form or quiz at the your child's checkup, consider filling them out before the visit and bringing the form or results with you.

Or schedule a separate, specific appointment to talk about a positive screening quiz for teen depression or drug use or if you think your child has autism.

2) Social Situation Changes

Have there been any changes at home recently?

Be sure to tell your pediatrician about any changes, as these could affect the way your child thinks and feels.

A separation, divorce, or even new marriage are all things that your pediatrician should know about.

Your pediatrician will likely know if you have had a new baby, but may not automatically know if you have remarried and your child has three new step-siblings at home.

Let your pediatrician know about these types of changes, including any deaths in the family, especially if you think that your child might be having trouble adjusting and needs some extra help.

3) Friendships

How well does your child make friends?

Does he have a best friend?

Although every kid doesn't need to be a social butterfly and be friends with everyone at school, not having any friends is a red flag that he is having problems.

Does he ever get bullied?

What does he do for fun? Is he involved in any after school activities?

And an important question that few people think to ask - does he or she ever bully anyone?

Talk to your kids about their friends (or lack of friends) and tell your pediatrician if you are concerned.

4) Recent Medical History

Has your child had any big medical problems since his last checkup?

Although your pediatrician's office should be your medical home, which would mean that your pediatrician is aware of all of your child's medical issues as they happen, it doesn't always happen that way.

Have you had to go to an urgent care center at night or on the weekend?

Did a sports injury at school send your child to the ER with a concussion?

Is your child undergoing any treatments for chronic or sudden problems by a specialist?

Be sure to update your pediatrician about these treatments, including any medications your child has been prescribed.

And just as you would at a sick visit, be sure to tell your pediatrician about any over-the-counter medications that your child is taking.

5) Alternative Treatments

You should also tell your pediatrician about any alternative treatments that you have trying or thinking about trying.

Do you take your child to a chiropractor or for acupuncture?

Do you give him mega-doses of vitamins or use essential oils?

Does he want to take high dose protein shakes because he thinks it will give him bigger muscles?

6) Recent Trips and Future Travel Plans

While knowing about a recent trip is more important if your child is sick, be sure to tell your pediatrician about any upcoming travel plans you may have.

Are you going to be traveling out of the country soon, which may mean that your child needs some special travel vaccines?

Some trips may also mean that you need a prescription for malaria prevention pills.

7) Future Plans and Transitioning to an Adult Doctor

I often tell older kids that they can continue to come see me as long as they are in school, figuring that they will move on once they graduate from college. That usually works fine, except for the kids who go to graduate school and keep coming to the office.

That's in sharp contrast to the younger teenagers who sometimes think that they are too old to continue going to a pediatrician.

Bottom Line

Checkups aren't just so your kids can go in and get shots. Make the most of them to make sure your child is growing and developing well, both physically and mentally.


AAP Policy Statement. 2016 Recommendations for Preventive Pediatric Health Care. PEDIATRICS Volume 137, number 1, January 2016

AAP Clinical Report: Identification and Evaluation of Children With Autism Spectrum Disorders. Pediatrics. 2007;120(5):1183–1215. Reaffirmed August 2014

CDC Response to Advisory Committee on Childhood Lead Poisoning Prevention Recommendations in “Low Level Lead Exposure Harms Children: A Renewed Call of Primary Prevention”

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