What Happens to Unclaimed Cremated Remains?

Whether forgotten or ignored, somebody must still care for cremated loved ones

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Every year, thousands of cremated human remains go unclaimed by surviving family members, friends and loved ones. According to an article published in the Chicago Tribune in 2010, an estimated 1% of all cremation cases in the United States result in unclaimed cremated remains. To put that into perspective, the Cremation Association of North America projected that 998,500 U.S. deaths in 2010 would involve cremation.

This means that nearly 10,000 sets of cremated human remains, whether housed in urns or temporary cremation containers, were never picked up by families, friends or loved ones in 2010 alone.

There are many reasons why families don't pick up the cremated remains of departed family members and friends, but the fact is that these remains still end up "somewhere." This article explains what typically happens to the thousands of sets of cremated human remains that go unclaimed every year.

Ad Hoc, Temporary Storage
Generally, the cremation of an average-size adult results in cremated remains weighing 2.27 – 3.63 kilograms (5 – 8 pounds). These cremated remains require an urn that can hold up to 3,277 cubic centimeters (200 cubic inches). So, for context, picture a typical bag of sugar sold at your local grocery store, which generally approximates the volume and weight of the minimum amount of cremated remains or "ashes" created per average-size adult.

Now imagine 10, 25 or 50+ bags of sugar and you can begin to appreciate the scale of the problem created when cremated remains go unclaimed over time.

Worldwide, funeral homes, cemeteries, crematories, hospitals and other institutions will initially use any available space to house unclaimed cremated remains.

Unfortunately, far too many funeral homes, for example, have what's known internally as the "cremation closet" -- a spot in a non-public area where unclaimed urns and temporary cremation containers are stored while the firm attempts to arrange pick-up or delivery of the cremated remains. Depending upon the number of sets in their possession, however, firms will also store unclaimed cremated remains in filing cabinets, basements, garages and even rented offsite storage units.

It's important to understand that these businesses do not resort to these ad hoc storage locations as a sign of disrespect toward the deceased or their loved ones. As noted earlier, every effort is made to reunite the remains with their families, next-of-kin, friends, etc. But, over time, many companies simply accumulate too many sets of unclaimed cremated remains and need to do something with them. In 2005, for example, The Oregonian reported that an Oregon psychiatric institution held the unclaimed cremated remains of 3,489 people, some of whom died as far back as 100 years earlier.

In the case of this hospital, the remains sat on "dusty wooden shelves" in a storage room.

Permanent Storage or Disposal
Depending upon various factors, many funeral homes, cemeteries and other institutions will seek a more permanent manner of housing unclaimed cremated remains. In such cases, these businesses will bury the urns and temporary cremation containers in their possession in a single mass grave in a cemetery or memorial park. Sometimes, the company will even commission a headstone bearing the names of the deceased for installation above the gravesite.

In other situations, firms will decide to inter their unclaimed cremated remains within a columbarium. Depending upon the number of urns and/or temporary cremation containers, and the size of the columbarium spaces, each niche might contain one or several sets of cremated remains.

In either case, the funeral home, cemetery, crematory, hospital or other institution will usually maintain detailed records indicating where each specific cremated individual in their charge rests just in case a family member, friend or loved one shows up later to claim the cremated remains.

Finally, depending upon the state or federal laws governing the disposal of deceased human remains, some providers will scatter the unclaimed cremated remains in their possession after a specified period. In Massachusetts, for example, state law allows a funeral establishment to scatter unclaimed cremated remains in a cemetery area designated for that purpose after 12 months (provided, as noted above, that the business maintains a permanent record of this disposition).

Due to ever-increasing concerns about legal liability, many funeral, burial and cremation providers have started including language in the contracts signed by families specifying how the company will handle cremated remains if they remain unclaimed after a specified amount of time. Even in these situations, however, and despite any existing state or federal law(s) absolving these companies of legal liability after these periods expire, businesses will still generally hold onto unclaimed cremated remains for much longer "just in case."

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"Cremated ashes are unclaimed, but not unwanted" by William Hageman, January 17, 2010. Chicago Tribune. Retrieved August 15, 2014. http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2010-01-17/features/1001140373_1_cremated-remains-sets

"Cremation Association of North America Annual Statistics Report," October 2011. Cremation Association of North America. Retrieved August 15, 2014. Author's collection.

"Oregon's Forgotten Hospital," May 31, 2005. The Oregonian. Retrieved September 1, 2014. http://www.oregonlive.com/special/oregonian/hospital/index.ssf?/special/oregonian/hospital/content/11.html

"Section 43M: Permanent disposition of dead bodies or remains." Massachusetts State Legislature. Retrieved September 2, 2014. https://malegislature.gov/Laws/GeneralLaws/PartI/TitleXVI/Chapter114/Section43M

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