Why Do Some People with Dementia Cry and Call Out? How Can You Help?

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You may have heard someone who has Alzheimer's disease or another dementia repeatedly call out, "Help me!" or become tearful and cry frequently. This can be very distressing to experience, for both the person with dementia and those around him. It can also cause frustration for caregivers when it seems like the person may be crying for no apparent reason. 

Triggers for Crying and Calling Out in Dementia

A few possible reasons why your loved one is displaying this behavior include:

Crying and calling out in dementia can be triggered by true distress as a result of feelings of loss and being overwhelmed. At other times, crying appears to be less of a sorrowful response and more of a habitual behavior.

Crying and calling out is sometimes more common in other types of dementia including vascular dementia, frontotemporal dementia and Lewy body dementia. These behaviors may also increase later in the day due to sundowning, a condition common in dementia where behaviors and emotions escalate toward the evening.

Finally, pseudobulbar affect (also known as PBA) can trigger excessive crying, as well as inappropriate laughter.

How to Help the Person with Dementia

There are times when it appears there's no reason for the person with dementia to call out or cry, at least none that you can determine. Sometimes, people seem to "get stuck" in a behavior without a reason.

However, before you write off crying or calling out as a meaningless behavior and say, "Well, that's just the way he is," consider the following interventions to make sure you're doing everything possible to help:

Activities to Try

If you've made sure that the basic needs of the person with dementia have been met and she continues to cry or call out, try some of these activities which may be comforting to her:

  • Favorite music: Know what her music of choice is and turn it on for her. This can comfort and distract her.
  • Pet therapy: A warm, fuzzy animal can provide many benefits to those around them.
  • Interaction with children: Young children have a way of engaging the attention of many, including those living with dementia.
  • Fresh air: A change of scenery can brighten the day.
  • Snack or drink: Sometimes, a tasty snack or drink can distract and provide comfort.
  • Gentle, reassuring touch: Try holding her hand, rubbing her shoulder or brushing her hair. These touches, which are ones that convey love and concern instead of performing a necessary act such as helping get her dressed for the day, are important to her quality of life. 


    Alzheimer's Association. Behaviors. http://www.alz.org/espanol/signs_and_symptoms/behaviors.asp

    Alzheimer's Association. Vascular Dementia. https://www.alz.org/dementia/downloads/topicsheet_vascular.pdf​

    National Institute on Aging. Types of Dementia. https://www.nia.nih.gov/alzheimers/publication/dementias/types-dementia

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