Facts and Warning Signs for Suicidal Thoughts in Children

Suicidal Thoughts and Behavior May Be a Symptom of Childhood Depression

A young girl suffering from depression.
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Knowing youth suicide facts is especially important for parents of children with depression. For parents, suicidal thoughts and behaviors are one of the most alarming concerns of childhood depression. According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), death by suicide is the fourth leading cause of death among 10- to 14-year-olds, and many more children attempt but do not complete suicide.

At What Age Can Suicidal Thoughts Happen?

According to the CDC's Web-based Injury Statistics Query and Reporting System (WISQRS), there were no deaths by suicide in the United States among children under age 5 between 2000 and 2007.

However, rates of suicide deaths increased 0.02% for 5- to 9-year-olds, and 1.22% for 10- to 14-year-olds in that same time period.

Typically, rates of suicide increase with age, peaking in late adolescence. Girls more often attempt suicide, but boys more frequently follow through to completion.

Suicidal Thoughts and Depression

According to Dr. David C.R. Kerr, who published a study of youth suicide in The Journal of Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior in 2008, suicidal thoughts are linked to a worse course of depression, the symptoms of which include earlier onset, longer duration and shorter intervals of remission.

It is important to know that not all depressed children will have suicidal thoughts or behavior. In fact, it is one of the least common symptoms of childhood depression. Also, not all children with suicidal thoughts and behavior are depressed.

Perhaps most comforting to know, not all children who have suicidal thoughts will attempt suicide.

However, it is a good predictor for future attempts, and these children always need to be evaluated by a professional.

Warning Signs of Suicide

Some important warning signs of suicidal behavior in children are:

  • Reckless behavior
  • Frequent statements of self-harm
  • Withdrawal from friends and family
  • Expressions of hopelessness about the future
  • Giving away things of importance

Risk Factors

Some risk factors that may contribute to a child's risk of suicidal thoughts and behavior include:

  • A family history of suicide, depression or other mental illness
  • Loss of a close family member, friend or classmate by suicide or other sudden death
  • Threats or violence from peers
  • Previous history of depression or other mental health illness
  • Previous suicide attempts

How to Help Your Child

Be aware. While rare in young children, suicide is possible. Know the warning signs and risk factors that may increase your child's risk of suicide.

Talk to your child. Talking about suicide will not give your child the idea to attempt suicide. If a friend or other loved one has died, committed suicide or is extremely ill, talk to your child about it and address her feelings.

Tell others. If your child exhibits suicidal thoughts or behaviors, tell your child's other caretakers and faculty members at her school so they can closely monitor your child when you are not around.

Keep weapons locked up. Common sense tells you to keep weapons, medications, alcohol and poisons safely away from children, but this is especially important for children at risk for suicide.

Get your child treatment. If your child is depressed, at high risk for depression or other mental illness, it is essential to get her treatment.

When to Get Immediate Help

It's better to be safe than sorry when it comes to your child's well-being. If you think that your child is in crisis and has had a previous suicide attempt, is threatening to harm herself, or you just have a "gut feeling," get your child help immediately. Do not wait. If needed, take your child to a pediatric emergency room.

Having a child who is depressed or is suicidal does not make you a bad parent or mean that you did anything to cause her pain. The best thing you can do is to get your child help and support her in her recovery.

*If your child or someone else you know is having thoughts of suicide, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255).


David C. R. Kerr, Ph.D., Lee D. Owen, B.S., Katherine C. Pears, Ph.D., and Deborah M. Capaldi, Ph.D. Prevalence of Suicidal Ideation Among Boys and Men Assessed Annually from Ages 9 to 29 Years. Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior. August 2008 38(4): 390-401.

Injury Prevention & Control: Data & Statistics (WISQARS). Centers for Disease Control. 

Knowing The Warning Signs. American Association of Suicidology. 

Suicide Prevention for Children. American Academy of Pediatrics: HealthyChildren.org. 

Suicide Prevention: Youth Suicide. Centers for Disease Control. 

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